Q: I became a granny in Jan. However my daughter in law refuses to let me see the child and my son seems to be under her reign!They don´t live in the same city so I would have to travel. I don´t really know why she doesn´t like me , and it see...ms she is enjoying my "pains". My son was prepared to meet me in a neutral place , but the daughter in law has the delusion I may hurt the child if I see him. I think she is "sick" but would like your opinion.I live in Germany.